This film is adorable. It’s a light entry in the MCU post-Ultron heaviness in both tone and theme. It also is situated right before Captain America: Civil War, and I think that it is timed perfectly to provide a bit of heart before a crushing divide in the next entry.
While I could talk about much that I love about Ant-Man, I think I really enjoy the idea of father-daughter relationships and second chances. Both Scott Lang, the title character, and Hank Pym, the former Ant-Man, have unresolved issues at the start of the film. Scott could be seen as a dead-beat dad after a short stint in prison. He doesn’t know his daughter well, and his now ex-wife is leery of him interacting with his daughter, Cassie, because he can be self-serving and self-absorbed. These same traits can also be found in Hank Pym—and that’s one of the reasons why I think Hank chooses Scott to be the new Ant-Man. He sees that Scott has potential and needs the second chance to be a part of his daughter’s life. As writer Paul Asay states, “Ant-Man’s smallish sagas hide a big heart in its father-daughter relationships, one that took up its beat from the very beginning. When Hank Pym first queries Scott about becoming Ant-Man in the first movie, he tells him this: ‘This is your chance to earn that look in your daughter’s eyes. To become the hero that she already thinks you are’” (https://aleteia.org/2018/07/14/3-cinematic-heroes-and-the-daughters-who-made-them-that-way/).
After all, Hank knows about estrangement: while he sees daughter Hope regularly, there is a distance between them since her mother’s tragic death. Hank also needs a second chance, but he is more focused on protecting Hope—and that leads to more distance emotionally between them. Father-daughter relationships aren’t always smooth, as this film spotlights.
I told the story of my mother in a previous entry—and how she was my best friend. I miss her every day. I am still lucky enough to have a wonderful father, but there was definitely a point of time where we had to evolve our relationship. While my dad would be the one to repair or glue or craft anything I needed, my mom was the one who listened. Here’s an example: my whole life, I would call home, and if my dad answered, we would exchange pleasantries, but he would hand the phone to my mom. I love my dad—don’t get me wrong—but I was definitely much closer to my mother. She and I talked for hours on the phone every day, and she would give me the best advice or just listen to my stories as a sounding board.
When my mom died, the shock of the loss propelled my dad and I forward, but then the first few phone calls were stilted as my dad and I had to learn how to talk to each other. He hates the phone—so the fact that he tried so hard to make conversation is one of the most heartwarming moments in our relationship. Funny enough: now we Zoom, and we never run out of topics.
Therefore, I think that what Ant-Man spotlights, then, is the idea of father-daughter relationships and the work that it takes to make them function well.
Scott realizes that Paxton—his ex-wife’s new fiancée—is great to Cassie. And Scott is man enough to acknowledge it. Hank realizes at the end of the film that trying to shield Hope from the truth of her mother’s accident doesn’t stop her from growing up or taking risks; it only pushes her further away. It’s only through bringing her into his life’s work, and acknowledging to her that she deserves her own suit (Go, MCU!) that he can choose a new path and build a better relationship with her. It’s not too late for him, and the film helps us realize it’s not too late for us, either.
So in the middle of all the comedic caper moments, and a cute ant acting like a dog, there is a real message here that life is more than just where we are; if we want a second chance, or a new future, we have to make it happen. It also showcases two very interesting father-daughter relationships, and I’m sure that this entry will be something that I talk about with my dad…the next time we Zoom.
So in the middle of all the comedic caper moments, and a cute ant acting like a dog, there is a real message here that life is more than just where we are; if we want a second chance, or a new future, we have to make it happen. It also showcases two very interesting father-daughter relationships, and I’m sure that this entry will be something that I talk about with my dad…the next time we Zoom.